Sasha St. James

Playful, intense, and enigmatic. A lover of music, fine dining, and deep conversation

 

You will notice my presence before you understand it.

 

I have the kind of beauty that makes men hesitate. Soft features that read as warm until you realize the warmth is an illusion. I am the kind of woman you stare at a little too long. The kind of woman whose silence feels like judgment. The kind of woman who makes you straighten your posture without being asked.

 

I do not ask.

You offer.

 

My version of control is quiet. I do not need to raise my voice. I do not need to brag. I allow you to feel the distance between us and you instinctively try to close it. That is the beginning of your surrender.

 

I am not here to soothe your ego.

I am here to expose it.

 

I like men who get flustered around soft eyes and a sharper mind. Men who crave approval they pretend they do not need. Men who feel that pull in their stomach when they meet a woman who will never need them in return.

 

You will never know exactly what I am thinking.

You will only know what I want you to do.

 

You bring devotion.

You bring discipline.

You bring your desire to serve.

 

And you will do it because there is something about me you cannot name. Something exotic and untouchable. Something that pulls you back even when you try to pretend you are above it.

 

If you want softness, you can look elsewhere.

If you want to feel owned, you are exactly where you should be.

 

Approach with clarity, respect, and zero hesitation.

I do not waste time on the weak.

 

 

A few of my favorite things

 

Authors: Haruki Murakami, Ottessa Moshfegh, Toni Morrison

 

Music: Bjork, Herbie Hancock, Stevie Wonder, Talking Heads

 

Brands: Issey Miyake, Comme des Garcons, Prada

 

Style: Minimalist, cool and chic

 

Cuisine: French, Italian, Japanese, also very open to new culinary experiences